Double Happiness: Back Blogging Continued - September 5th Post Addendum

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Back Blogging Continued - September 5th Post Addendum - Wo ai ni!

The night of September 4th Skylar slept with Mommy. Maybe it was because he had a little fever due to his immunizations and let his guard down because he didn't feel well. Maybe it was because of Daddy's prompting. No matter the reason, it touched my soul that Skylar would allow me to cuddle him, if just for a little while.

In the morning of September 5th my son Skylar hugged me and said; "Wo ai ni, Mama". This means "I love you" in Chinese!

This doesn't mean that he will sit on my lap, or allow me to bathe him, or come to me when he is hungry or thirsty. He is still completely and totally attached to Daddy. Daddy cannot be out of Skylar's sight. If Skylar can't see Daddy, or thinks that Daddy has left he has a MAJOR meltdown.

We still have a long way to go, but I am beginning to see a little tiny light at the end of the tunnel.

1 comment:

AusSeptember 18, 2010 at 10:57 AM
HOORAH - take that for a start, and enjoy it - there'll be moreI'm sure!

hugs - aus and co.
ReplyDelete
Replies

Add comment

Skylar's Question

Skylar and I were having a conversation. You know, Mommy and son solving the world's problems. When Skylar asked; "Mommy, as I grow big will you grow little?" I tried to explain to him that as he grows bigger, and older that Mommy and Daddy will not get small, but just older. (We may get shorter, but I think that would have just confused the issue.)

Then he said the most beautiful thing. Skylar said; "Don't worry Mommy, I'll take care of you if you get too old."

What a precious, sweet soul my wonderful son has. I am such a blessed Mommy. :)

November 2011

The Call

Every call has a beginning.

A quiet moment when GOD whispers a promise

to a mother’s heart.

A holy place where a father bows and faithfully accepts the journey set before him.

A miraculous morning that unexpectedly dawns, casting its first light on a chosen threshold.

A gentle knock, a closed door opens.

A sacred invitation sent by GOD, leads to the other side of the world.

Where lonely hearts stare out orphanage windows,
praying for someone to care.

And then one morning, on an ordinary day,

an orphan’s life changes.

GOD sends them a second chance, through you. . .

--author unknown

KISSES IN THE WIND

The Waiting Child's Lullabye

I hold you in my heart

and touch you in my dreams.
You are here each day with me,

at least that's how it seems.

I know you wonder where we are . . .

what's taking us so long?

But remember child,

I love you so and God will keep you strong.

Now go outside and feel the breeze

and let it touch your skin . . .
Because tonight, just as always,

I blow you kisses in the wind.

May God hold you in His hand until I can be with you.
I promise you, my darling,

I'm doing all that I can do.

Very soon, you'll have a family for real,

not just pretend.
But for tonight, just as always,

I blow you kisses in the wind.

May God wrap you in His arms

and hold you very tight.
And let the angels bring the kisses

Favorite Disneyworld Restaurants

Brown Derby

Great food, great service, great seating. Kid friendly. Special birthday dessert for me, with complimentary champagne for Rick and I. :)

Cinderella's Table in Cinderella's Castle

Good food, great service, regal ambiance, and lots of interaction for the kids with beautiful princesses. Wand, sword and Wishing Star! Cinderella portrait included.

California Grill at the Contemporary Hotel

Great food, great service, wonderful view and ambiance. Friendly companion diners.

Floridian Cafe at the Grand Floridian Hotel

Great food, excellent service, good ambiance. Beautiful dessert presentation. Excellent staff interaction with the kids.